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Have you ever noticed how if you’re up later than usual, your dog will retreat to his bed at the usual time? That’s because dogs thrive on routine! But any upset in that routine may result in your dog becoming anxious and even keeping you up at night.
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Feeding, walks, playtime, chill time, and especially bedtime, are important routines for dogs. When things change due to travel, unusual visitors, or you being away, that’s when your dog can become anxious, fearful, or start to act out. If your dog is suddenly anxious at night, it’s worth looking at your routine to see if any changes are making him uneasy.
Chilly and I stick to a regular routine to help him have better sleeps. In the summer, when we have almost daily thunderstorms in the afternoons and evenings, Chilly doesn’t sleep as well (more here on what to do if your dog has thunder-related anxiety). But even during all seasons, a consistent bedtime routine is important to help him wind down to enjoy a restful night’s sleep.
Here are my tips for a calming bedtime routine:
Calming Bedtime Routines for Anxious Dogs
1. A Tasty Treat
Giving your dog a treat at bedtime will give him something special to look forward to every night. Associating bedtime with a yummy snack may also help you to train your pup to settle down for bed. Just like many dogs who seem to know somehow when it’s time for their people to get home or when it’s time for dinner, you may soon find that your own pooch is reminding you to give him his treat so he can go to sleep!
The Anxious Pet makes a heavenly chew for dogs that incorporates calming Acetyl L-Carnitine, Magnolia St. John’s Wart and Barberry, plus Cannabidiol to help support stress-free relaxation. They come in both bacon and peanut butter flavors. What I love about these, and all of the products from The Anxious Pet, including their Hemp Oil, is that they’re veterinarian formulated. So I can confidently give my pets the right dose, knowing that it’s safe for their specific weight class.
2. A Secure, Comfy Place to Sleep
Does your dog sleep in the same place every night? Most likely the answer is yes! Whether it’s their own doggie bed, a favorite spot on the floor, or a place in bed with you, most pups sleep the best when they’re in their normal sleeping spot. It’s our job as dog parents to make sure that their sleeping place is as comfy and cozy as possible so they can snuggle down and enjoy the night in doggie dreamland!
Chilly loves a bed with bolster sides. It gives him enough room to sprawl out a bit with the added security of something to snuggle up against for the night. This one is made with memory foam (great for a senior dog’s aching joints) and it has a machine-washable cover.
This round donut bed is great for dogs who like to curl up. Its raised edges make the perfect head rest if he doesn’t want to keep his head tucked in. And you can throw the whole bed in the washing machine. A round bed is paw-fect for pups who like to curl up at night.
If your dog won’t sleep at night, take a look at his bed. If he doesn’t use it, or no longer uses it regularly, he likely needs a new bed better suited to his needs.
3. A Favorite Cuddle Toy
Do you remember how safe and secure you felt as a child when you snuggled in bed with your favorite teddy bear? Well, dogs can also find security from a special toy.
Now, not just any old toy will make the paw-fect bedtime buddy. Don’t give him anything with squeakers – that will probably just wind him up and get him in the mood to play! Similarly, anything you usually use to play fetch or tug with may not be the best choice. Ideally you want a toy that only comes out at bedtime or other “down” times.
This adorable duck makes the perfect bedtime buddy. It’s super soft, squeak free, and it won’t encourage thoughts of rambunctious play.
4. A Bedtime Scent
Many pet parents ask, “What can I give my dog to sleep at night?” However, rather than immediately turning to medications, you might try some more natural therapies.
Some scents can have a calming effect on the human members of the family, and the same is true for our tail wagging friends. Spraying your dog’s bed or bedtime toys with a calming blend of essential oils is a great way to alleviate any lingering anxiety from the day and get your pup ready to sleep through the night.
I love this all natural essential oil spray from ThunderEssence, the makers of the ThunderShirt! It’s made with lavender, chamomile and Egyptian geranium essential oils, and it smells amazing! I’m tempted to spray it on my own pillow, but for now I’ll save it for Chilly’s bed and cuddle toys!
5. Special Bonding Time
Once your pup is all calm, it’s time for my favorite part of the bedtime routine – the special together time! Choose any quiet activity that you and your pooch both enjoy like a gentle ear rubbing while you thank him for being such a good boy that day:)
With a calming bedtime routine, you can ease the day’s anxiety and tuck your pup into bed ready to doze off and enjoy those sweet, happy doggie dreams!
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Between 6-8..13 yr old japaneese chin Male, seems to do everything to get our attention, we are watching the nightly news. 8 goes out on leach to walk , then bed in our bed. 5 min. Later wants water.
Then settles down, sleeps all nite.he is with us 24/7 unless dr app. Etc.
It sounds like he knows how to keep your attention! Good to hear that he sleeps all night!
my dog is 16 years old. My dog always scared at the stormy night. However, past two nights (after the previous stormy night) he woke up and came to my bedside and start soft bark to wake me, he was acting scared and heavy breathing. I get up and pet him and went to the bathroom, he attached to me and seems to be calmed a little, but when I went back to bed, I could hear his heavy breathing again.
How can I help him?
Hi Rachel,
It sounds like your dog has noise aversion. That means, fear of loud or sudden noises. This is very common in dogs and usually things like thunder, fireworks or other loud noises send them into a panic state.
I’ve written a lot of articles about this. Here’s a good one for you to read to get your pup some relief!
https://kristenlevine.com/dogs-anxiety-everyday-noises/
I hope this is helpful!
Kristen
Thanks for the tips! We have a new rescue pup (4-5 years old) and he’s a dream dog during the day. When it’s time to go to bed, it become a giant game to him jumping on and off the bed, trying to climb up in our faces, etc. He won’t stay in his bed and apparently is not used to going in a crate to sleep. Of course, he was a wreck all night July 4th with all the fireworks going off. Any thoughts?
Hi Deborah,
Poor pup (and poor you)! It sounds like he needs a new bedtime routine. A few recommendations:
– Try crating him at night and giving him a yummy treat when he goes in there. Something that will last a while, like a Kong stuffed with something he loves. Let him out to go potty before you put him inside, and make sure there’s comfy bedding and I would even add an Adaptil diffuser near the crate (this releases pheromones into the air that calm dogs). Let him out the next morning, early (in case he has to go potty). Establish that PM/AM routine and eventually, he’ll be putting himself to bed. Seriously!
-If he can’t adjust to the crate, try the same approach but tell him to go to his bed at the same time each nigh. Same thing, yummy treat and give him zero attention when he misbehaves.
I know, sounds easier than it is, but if you are persistent and don’t let him win, you will win. It might take some time and patience, but you can do it!
As for the fear of loud noises (fireworks, thunder), check out my other article about this: https://kristenlevine.com/dogs-anxiety-everyday-noises/
Hope this helps! Thanks for adopting!
Kristen
Hello! Deborah’s story about her pups anxiety is exactly like ours! Adopted a 1y/o female Aussie mix less than two weeks ago. She has a tough time going to sleep without jumping on/off our bed, crawling under the bed, pacing and escaping our room to hide down stairs. Last couple nights we have been enticing her to sleep in her crate with treats, however she doesn’t always want to go in her crate. We’re committed to positive reinforcement, however this doesn’t seem to be enough to get her in the crate every time. Is it ok to Gently push her in? How do we draw the line between positive reinforcement and enforcing a routine?
Hi Matt! It sounds like your pup is having a hard time adjusting to a bedtime routine. There are ways you can establish a routine while using positive reinforcement. Here are a few recommendations:
-First, it is really important that she is actually tired at bedtime. Make sure you are giving her enough exercise (playtime and walks) throughout the day!
-If she does go into her crate on her own, give her a yummy snack she can have that will keep her occupied for a while, like a Kong filled with something she loves! Ensure she has gone to the potty before you put her in the crate and make sure the space is comfortable for her to sleep in – try a dog bed like this one! Try and put her to bed at the same time each night so she can develop a routine. Try not to give her attention if she misbehaves – I know it’s hard!
-If she can’t adjust to the crate, try the same approach but tell her to go to her bed at the same time each night. Give her a treat that she enjoys and don’t give her attention when she misbehaves.
If you are persistent and don’t let her win, you will win. Since you have only had her for two weeks, it will take some time to develop a routine that works. Positive reinforcement is great and you will see results! My puppy Tulip is 5 months old and it took her about 3-4 months before she started to put herself to bed at night! She walks right into her crate about 9pm and we close the door. Not a peep from her till morning!
Hope this helps! Thanks for adopting!
Kristen
I just adopted 1½ month old puppy, I love her alot but she keeps biting hands and feet, even if we give her toys she plays for 1-2 minutes and then again she prefers foot and hand, we tried alot of things like punishing her by keeping her in a tub alone for 2-3 minutes and also saying “No” in firm and loud voice, also we tried giving her treat if she licks instead of biting, but of no use. Is it because she wants to play or is she very small to understand this type of training? Please help!
Hi Prajay,
Oh no! That is a frustrating behavior. Puppies, especially when they are that young, think that biting is playing! So, she likely is not trying to hurt you, she is just trying to play. The best way to redirect the behavior is to use positive reinforcement. It will take a lot of patience, but it is not hopeless! So, when she bites, take a chew toy and place that in her mouth instead. That can help her to learn to chew on her toys and not on your hands. Since she is so young, she is likely teething, so getting her a good chew toy will also help calm her. I like these ones! https://amzn.to/3hkqnfJ
Let me know if this helps! Stay strong, she will stop biting soon!
Kristen
Hey my shihtzu is 3 months and he does not sleep at night instead he sleep at day time and he wants to play at night
Hi Ria,
Congrats on your puppy! Puppies are playful and need a lot of extra attention. Does he have a routine? If not, be sure to establish a routine for his day. That means he should be fed at the same time each day, have a set playtime in the afternoon/evening, a set walking schedule, and a set “bedtime”. Regular exercise for him through playtime and walks will help him to feel more tired at night. Interactive treat and puzzle toys, like this one https://amzn.to/3nvuA4L , can help keep him busy during the day to keep him active! Also, when he is old enough, it is best to get him neutered as that will help calm him down. The Anxious Pet also makes a CBD oil for pets that can help them feel calmer and my puppy loves it: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578555&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
I hope this helps! Stick with it! Puppies are fun but take a lot of attention. Your pup will thank you once you find a good routine for him 🙂
Wags,
Kristen
Hi.
My five year old Jack Russell has slept on my bed since day one with no problems. A few times this week he’s been a lot different. He settles down fine at first but after a while he begins to shake. I put him outside a few times but afterwards he sometimes to refuses to get back on the bed.
When he does get back on he gets very clingy and won’t go back to sleep. He eventually does, but only after a lot of reassurance.
It’s very worrying because he’s not normally nervous about anything.
Im a first timer pet owner. I have a 11 week Shichon who I’ve had for almost a week. I’m having a difficult time with his crying at bed time- I live in an apartment and he is a ESA so I can’t have him disturbing neighbors at night because they cane revoke my rights to have him. Do you have any additional support to offer help – right now I’m having to get him out and he thinks whining gets him what he wants – and it does. I don’t mind him sleeping in his carrier on my bed w me – I actually love it 🙂 – but I don’t want to do him a disservice.
Hi Lucia, congrats on your first pet! Bedtime routines can take time, especially with puppies! Here are some tips:
-If you want him to sleep in his crate, ensure he has had plenty of exercise that day (walks and playtime) and has gone to the potty prior to putting him inside. Give him a toy that will occupy him for a while, so he is less likely to whine. Additionally, if he has a favorite toy, put that inside of his crate too!
-If you find he is not adjusting to the crate, try getting him a large comfortable dog bed, like this one, and put him to sleep at the same time each night following the same steps as above.
Bedtime routines can take time. But, before you know it, you will have a routine that works for you both… and your neighbors 🙂 My new puppy Tulip is 5 months old and it took her about 3-4 months before she started to put herself to bed at night! She walks right into her crate about 9pm and we close the door. Not a peep from her till morning!
Hope this helps! Keep me updated.
Kristen
I have an 11 year old Shiba Inu who has recently started pacing, whining, and standing up and scratching at my wife and I all evening. He’s usually shaking and looking paranoid the entire time he’s doing it, but he won’t let us near him. We try to pet him or hold him and he runs away with his tail tucked. It usually starts from midnight and has lasted at time all the way up to 6 am.
I’m at a loss for what we should do, but none of us can get any sleep because of it. At first I thought there’s a owl or something in the house he can’t find so he’s freaking out, but we have a larger breed that is perfectly fine, and she doesn’t seem to notice anything.
He doesn’t seem to do any normal activities during these episodes. He doesn’t want his toys, or snacks. He just wanders around, tail tucked scratching at us, and whining.
Can you provide any advice?
Hi Christopher,
Sorry for my delay in reply!
This is such a difficult issue! Pet anxiety can be caused for any number of reasons. How long have you had him and have you recently moved? If he is newer to your family or you are in a new environment he may just be adjusting. Additionally, if there has been ANY change in his routine, that can cause anxiety. It’s best to be sure you have a set routine for feeding, walks, and playtime so he has something to get used to throughout the day. That will help him to feel more at ease.
I would recommend bringing up this behavior to a vet or a certified animal behaviorist. They are the experts in pet behavior and can help you nail down the cause! You can find one near you here: https://www.dacvb.org/#:~:text=The%20American%20College%20of%20Veterinary,specialists%20are%20known%20as%20Diplomates.
I hope this helps. Good luck and keep me posted!
Wags,
Kristen
I adopted a 4 year old Chihuahua 2 months ago. I set up her crate in the living room and she loved it right away and still likes to spend most of her lounging time in it during the day.
However, it has become increasingly difficult to crate her at night. As I mentioned, she loves laying in the crate during the day, even at night too, but she has learned the routine – as soon as we get back from her final walk of the day, she wants nothing to do with it. I can’t coax her in with food or toys. She stops listening to “come” and stop responding to her name – she seems paralyzed with anxiety as she realizes she’ll be in the crate separated from me for the next 8 hours or so.
It’s gotten to the point that I have to pick her up and place her into the crate, pet her, tell her to stay, and once she’s relaxed, I close the door – no whining, no scratching. She will sulk or hide under furniture to avoid the crate. I don’t trust leaving her free to roam with my bedroom door closed as I’m a light sleeper and she will sometimes scratch on doors when left alone or in a different room.
As a note, I do not crate her when I leave her alone – I did at first, but realized she did not have destructive tendencies and seemed to get anxious when she knew we would be separated, so I thought keeping crating just to night would be better and avoid separation anxiety…
I know putting her into the crate can give her a negative association with the crate at night, but I don’t know what else to do. Trying to go to sleep at night has become exhausting because it has become stressful to get her to bed. Should I be crating her more during the day? Should I just place her in the crate right away when I’m ready to sleep instead of waiting for her to get in on her own? Should I get rid of the crate and get a bed/baby gate for the kitchen? Should I get a ringed fence for her crate for night?
Appreciate any advice you can share!!!
Hi
My 6 month used to take herself to bed at 8pm everyday, we’d shut the crate door and not hear from her until 6 in the morning.
Recently she takes to whining as soon as we leave the room when she’s in her crate, so we wait til.shes asleep then leave. She has starting waking once or twice in the night and barking relentlessly until someone comes to the room be with her. She then will only go to sleep if someone is there.
What can we do to get her out of this?
Hi Luke,
Has she recently had a change in her routine or has there been any environmental changes? This could be causing her some anxiety meaning she is scared when you leave her at night.
Additionally, it is important that she has a set playtime and walk time/potty time right before she goes to bed. That will help her to feel tired when it is bedtime and actually go to sleep and stay asleep.
I would recommend trying some of The Anxious Pet’s CBD oil or chews at night to help naturally calm her as well! They have helped my dogs feel a little calmer. You can try them here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578559&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
I hope this helps! Keep me posted!
Wags,
Kristen
Hi Hailey,
I’m sorry for the delay in responding to this. I’m so sorry you’re struggling with the nighttime routine.
You say she likes her crate during the day, but at night it’s hard to get her in there — kind of like a child who doesn’t want to go to bed, LOL.
I think you have some options. If the crate at night is stressing her out, try another form of containment like a baby gate. Or, if you aren’t worried about her being destructive or getting into trouble, you might try leaving her out at night. Chances are she’ll find a favorite place to sleep until morning.
One thing you should be sure to do regardless of what option you choose, is to make sure she’s getting enough exercise and mental stimulation. If not, she can become anxious just because she’s not getting enough physical or mental activity during the day. A tired dog is less likely to get stressed.
I hope this is helpful! Let me know!
Kristen
I have a 10 month old Neo Mastiff who was given away by his previous owner at about 6 months and then given to me at almost 10 months. He’s a good dog most of the time, he knows basic commands and we crate him during the day while at work and he is fine (I let him out at lunch) but we have had him 6 weeks and never crated him at night, mainly because I felt bad cause he was crated all day but he doesn’t sleep much, 3 hours maybe and then he’s up again and just as hyper, always getting into stuff, jumping on us in bed, tearing up stuff he shouldn’t be, the only way he will sleep in his crate at night is if I am in the living.room on the couch so he can see me. He’ll cry a little and then go to sleep but he’s up again in a few hours and cries more and tries to get out and I just feel like he needs some CBD or something to get sleep. I have no idea what his sleeping routine was before but he definitely needs some behavior training
Hi Kimberly,
It takes time to get puppies used to a bedtime routine. My puppy Tulip is 5 months old and it took her about 3-4 months before she started to put herself to bed at night!
One thing that is very important is ensuring that your dog is actually tired at bedtime. Make sure he has had playtime and walks before going to bed. That way, he is more likely to actually sleep. Since he is crated throughout the day, try keeping him occupied with a puzzle game or toy he can have in his crate with him. Like a Kong you can fill with something yummy – https://amzn.to/3fDYXBx Then, make sure to have playtime and a walk when you get home to tire him out.
I hope this helps! Thank you for your question.
Kristen
I have a 14yr old papillon that has become more anxious than usual. She walks back and forth all day panting or coughing. She does the same at night. I hear her jump on and off my bed throughout the night. She’s very attached to me and I believe she has separation anxiety. If I leave her sight for 5mins and come back she starts screaming as if she has not seen me all day. She will not eat if I am not present. Although she’s so attached to me she’s also skittish. She’s become more and more skittish throughout the years. Sometimes she’ll scream if I try to pick her up. Nothing is physically wrong with her so I don’t understand. I have two other dogs and when I give them attention my papillon starts coughing and panting. Her vet informed me on her last visit a couple months ago that her vision can best be described as someone looking out of a dirty windshield. Other than that she was healthy. I am worried to say the least. What can I do for her?
Hi Jessica,
Gosh that is so tough! It breaks my heart to watch my pets go through any anxiety.
It sounds like it’s possible her vision issue could be the cause of some anxiety. If she can’t see you, she might feel more anxious which could explain the unexpected barking/coughing/panting.
I would recommend making sure she has a set routine for her day so she knows what to expect between feeding time, play time, and walks. This can help her feel more calm throughout the day.
If you think anxiety is an issue, you should mention that to your vet as they may have some solutions for her. Hemp oil from The Anxious Pet is a drug free option that you could give her before you leave her to help her feel more calm. You can buy it here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1590927&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
I hope this helps! Keep me posted.
Wags,
Kristen
I have a mini pincher/jack Russell 15 months old have always sleep in bed with us . We got in a play mate jack Russell 3 yrs old that wants to sleep in the be also. But now the 15 month old will not get in the bed.? They play together fell well alll day together. This is the only problem
Hi Gaylon,
The change in your mini pincher mix’s bedtime behavior could be due to his routine changing. When you added the 3 year old, the younger pup experienced a change in his bedtime routine since the new dog is now also sleeping in “his bed”. It could just take him some time to adjust to the new sleeping arrangements!
If he is acting anxious at bedtime, you should try some of The Anxious Pet’s calming soft chews right before bed to get him to calm down and go to sleep! https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578544&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
My dogs love both bacon and peanut butter flavors!
Hope this helps!
Kristen
Our 10-year old dog Jellybean has suddenly been acting weird at night. 3 of the past 5 nights. She sits on the bed and just stares at us while we are “sleeping”. She pants and constantly walking over, and on top of us. This goes on for hours and hours. If I take her out, she’ll go to the bathroom, come in, and the behavior continues. Her activity level during the day has not changed. The only possible change is that she has not been able to go swimming due to blue algae in the lake here. Thanks for any help. 🐶
Hi Ann,
Has she had a recent change in environment/routine? The sudden behavior could be due to anxiety she is experiencing. Additionally, is she getting enough exercise throughout the day? If she is no longer swimming, you may need to replace that activity with an extra walk. When dogs have been active throughout the day, they are more likely to sleep soundly. I would still encourage you to bring up this new behavior to the vet as she could be trying to tell you something is wrong!
Hope this helps.
Kristen
We crate trained our min pin she will sleep with us or our daughter but will pee or poop at night. She has very high anxiety we started putting her in the crate. No matter what we do she will scratch the floor out side the cage. We give her composure for anxiety but still sctatches.
Hi Nic,
I am sorry to hear about your Min Pin’s anxiety! Have you ever mentioned this behavior to your vet? I would highly recommend that.
She is likely scratching due to anxiety and if you recently began crating her at night, she will need some time to adjust to that change in her routine. I would recommend ensuring that she has a clear routine throughout the day where you feed her, walk her, and play with her at the same time so she can can feel more calm and tired when it is time for bed. This could help her sleep better!
To help with the peeing and pooping, be sure to take her out right before bedtime so she can relieve herself!
I hope this helps! Keep me posted.
Kristen
Question…we have a 4 year old Aussie who has slept in his crate since a pup, but we recently removed the crate (remodeling the bedroom) and he’s sleeping in our bed or in his doggie donut or on the floor. This began about 3 weeks ago and now he’s a lot more anxious, less willing to walk or play fetch…he seems “off”. Could it be the disruption of his crate routine is causing the change in behavior? Add to it, the kids are going back to school now in person, so his people aren’t here as much since the March quarantine.
thanks for you help – D
Hi Derek,
Yes I would say that this disruption in his routine could be a cause of this behavior. Was he ever experiencing anxiety prior to these changes? If not, that could be another indicator that the routine disruption is the cause.
I would say between the remodel and the kids returning back to school, he is trying to figure out how to adjust to this new normal. Since these changes are temporary, I would try to keep the other elements of his routine the same if you can. Meaning keep his same feeding time, walks, and playtime.
I also created an Ebook that might have some more in-depth advice for you. It is my back to work guide as many people are returning to the office since COVID hit in March, but it could easily double as a “Back to School” guide since your kids are back in the classroom! You can download it here (it’s free 🙂 https://petliving.kristenlevine.com/back-to-work
I hope this helps! Let me know
Kristen
I have a 12 year old poodle his a winny and bark all night long i gve him some treat cuddle with him and he stop, but when i put him back to his bed start doing the same thing whT should i do
Hi Edna,
Has he always done this? If not, I would take him to the vet to make sure they rule out any underlying medical condition since he is a senior pup! Does he have a daily routine? If you have a set playtime, feeding times, walking time, and bedtime he will be more likely to sleep through the night. If you don’t have a routine for him, it’s not too late to get him adjusted to one!
I make sure to exercise my dogs regularly throughout the day so they are actually tired at bedtime. That is key to getting them to sleep. Have you ever tried hemp treats? They are naturally calming and could help him to sleep better at night! I personally love these from The Anxious Pet: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578559&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
Let me know if this helps! Good luck!
Kristen
My cousin has adopted an older Newfoundland dog and they seem really anxious but she wants to make sure that the bed can be more comfortable while sleeping. Getting a dog bed from a professional could be really useful and be big enough so that she fits on it comfortably. I’ll be sure to tell her about how they should be comfy and cozier in their sleeping spot that can be moved.
Glad this helped, Adam!
Kristen
Hi we have a 5 year old lhasa apso and normally he sleeps fine on his bed in my mums room but since before the 5th november he has refused to wanting to ve on my muks bed but she has chronic athritis he digs at door and ony settles onnher bed then on floor by her bed
Lynsey
Hi Lynsey,
I am sorry to hear your dog is anxious at night! Has he recently had a change in his routine? That could be the cause. Dogs thrive on routine, so if something changes, no matter how minor, it can cause some anxiety. Additionally, his arthritis could be a contributing factor. I would definitely check with your vet to determine if he could benefit from treatment!
In the meantime, I really like The Anxious Pet calming CBD solutions. I put the oil on Tulip’s food when she is extra hyper before bedtime. She gobbles it right up! My pets also both love their hemp chews! They come in peanut butter and bacon flavor. You can check them out here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1590927&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
I hope this helps and he can get some relief soon! Keep me posted.
Kristen
I have a two year old xxl pitbull, he resembles a boerboel. February of 2020 he was diagnosis with seizures. I was prescribed keppra up to 5000 mg a day ( he is a big boy). He was having seizures once every other month. This past month he had 2 seizures back to back and we asked for keppra time release, he also gave my pet zonisamide to take with keppra. I am trying to explain to my vet that my dog has very bad anxiety at night time and it seems to me they think I am crazy. Our routine everyday starts off as going out to the yard and handling his business, my husband and I go to work, he is fine all day he sleeps or plays with our other pet. When we come home from work of course they go out and we all eat dinner together. When the suns goes down he becomes nervous. drooling, panting. We try to tire him out and some nights it works some nights it doesn’t. King sleeps with me for about 2 hours and than he knows to go to his bed for the rest of the night ( which is in our room ) I feel that is our time together to end our long day. There are nights he sleeps and there are nights ( a week straight) he doesn’t get sleep. He fights it and I feel he is so scared to fall asleep cause he is worried he will have another seizer. He has seen a neurologist and got many test done and everything was clear. They seen a very small spot on his brain but couldn’t confirm if that was the problem. I feel so bad for my pet and I need help and so tips on how to make some night better for us.
My dog is 9 years old and I have had her since she was 4 months old. She is an anxious dog in general but these past few nights her anxiety has been getting worse. She usually sleeps in bed with me. Once she goes to sleep she does not move, even if i go to sleep way after her she does not wait for me. The past few nights, If I am not in bed when she is ready to go to sleep, she will stare at me until i get in bed. Once I lay down, she starts to shake and request pets. She doesn’t stop clawing at my hand and trying to give me an excess of kisses until I close my eyes and am cuddling her. What does this mean and how can I reduce her bed-time anxiety?
Hi Andrea,
Have there been any changes in her routine recently? That could have caused her to have some extra bedtime anxiety. It’s best to bring this behavior up to your vet so they can rule out any underlying issues causing the behavior.
I would suggest making sure she has a clear bedtime routine. Take her outside, make sure she has been fed and has had playtime. Those things will help her to actually feel tired at bedtime. The Anxious Pet makes calming chews that are great for dogs with anxiety! My dogs love them. You can get them here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578559&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
I hope this helps! Good luck and I hope your pup feels better soon!
Kristen
Thank you for sharing your post about 5 Bedtime Routines to Calm an Anxious Dog. Thanks for the great tips and suggestions. I learned something. Nice photos also. I will bookmark this site.
Hi Richard,
Thanks for sharing! I am glad you found this helpful!
Kristen
We have a 3 year old terrier mix that we adopted about a week ago. Aside from his separation anxiety, he’s an angel dog during the day. After our hour plus walks in the morning, he sleeps and rests most of the day. We take him out 3-4 more times for shorter walks and potty breaks and generally he gets about 2.5 hours of walking time in total. He seems a bit uninterested in play time but we try to get some of that in as well. But then around 6 pm he turns into a different dog, won’t let us eat dinner without barking constantly and begging and is generally extremely agitated for about an hour. We take him into the bedroom and have to hold him to calm him down. The rest of the night is usually smooth after that with him resting and then easily sleeping (trying to crate train but he’s stubborn so he’s been sleeping on our bed). I’m wondering if you have any recommendations for how to calm him during this time.
Hello! We adopted our dog about 7 months ago, and she is just now about to turn 1. When we first got her we had no problems getting her to sleep through the night. No matter what we did throughout the day she would start to settle around 7pm in her crate and wake up around 4am for a quick potty break, then sleep on the ground next to the couch until 6.
In the past 3-4 months she’s been getting worse with sleeping. Roughly 1-2 times a week she’ll wake up in the middle of the night whimpering. At first we thought it was potty related, and it was hit or miss of whether or not she actually needed to. But always after taking her out she would run over by the couch and try to sleep on the ground instead of her crate. The first few nights we allowed it, but then realized it was creating a bad pattern. We did some research and felt it was separation anxiety. My husband is retired and home with her all day.
Since realizing this, we have tried keeping her in the crate and occasionally acknowledging her to know we are close by, but she’ll whimper throughout the night. We just want a full nights rest, and don’t really want her in the bed. We would love some suggestions. Thank you!
Thank you for the really helpful tips.
We have a 9-week old west highland terrier called Hugo. We find that when he cries in the night for what we think is a trip outside to the toilet – he has already done his business in the pen without making a sound.
Any helpful thoughts would be most welcome.
All the best,
Adam
Hi Adam,
Congrats on your new puppy! Potty training takes time, and it can definitely pose a challenge when he is going while you’re asleep. Consistency is huge when house breaking puppies. This means that he should have a predictable meal time, play time, walk time, and even a predictable place to go potty. When you take him outside to potty, take him on a leash and go to the same spot each time. That way, he can associate that place with where he needs to potty.
Additionally, ensure you are taking him out enough! For puppies that are 8-12 weeks old or dogs under 8 lbs, take a trip outside about once per hour. He should also go out after waking up, before going to bed, and right after eating.
Once it is time, getting him neutered will help him be less likely to mark his territory, too.
I hope this helps! Keep me posted.
Kristen
My boyfriend & I rescued a puppy from a shelter at 10 wks old. From day one he has expressed signs of separation anxiety. We have tried multiple tactics but still almost 2 years later he still whines & barks when we put him in his crate and leave. (he sleeps in his crate at night without incident, which was not the case for the first year so we are making progress) He is not so bad when we leave separately but when we leave together it seems to ramp up his whining, scratching at the crate, & barking. Any suggestions? (We have tried just leaving for 10 mins at a time on multiple occasions but he is still freaking out when we get back)
Hi Cindy,
I am so sorry your dog has separation anxiety. This issue isn’t uncommon in dogs, and it is heartbreaking!
Have you ever tried Adaptil diffusers? They release calming pheromones, or “happy messages” into the air. They are odorless to humans, but can really help to keep him calm. https://amzn.to/3lmJCY6 You can put one in the room where his crate is. Additionally, I really like Zylkene. It is a anti-anxiety supplement made from dehydrated milk. You can sprinkle this over food, into a treat, or in his mouth before you leave the house to help him to feel more at ease: https://amzn.to/3lnjBYs
I would also recommend talking to your vet if the issue persists. If his anxiety is severe, he could benefit from medication.
Hope this helps!
Kristen
I am an experienced dog owner who adopted a senior dog that was severely malnourished with other signs of severe neglect when we adopted him.
He is a very loving dog and not aggressive but never been healthy because of everything he has been through in combination with his age.
We’ve got good vets and received second and even third opinions on right meds to control severe gastrointestinal issues that send him into cycles of severe vomiting and gas that landed him in the hospital just once over last five years we’ve had him.
What is frustrating to me is that despite following all this guidance including plenty of exercise and comfy place to sleep and early mealtime he is still extremely hyperactive, bouncing off wall at 2 a.m. in morning long after we are in bed (he even has his own bedroom at other end of the house) and it makes his physical issues worse.
Is there a point at which it makes sense to inquire as to meds rather than just food or routine to make him calmer?
Hi Tony,
Gosh, this is a tough situation! First, thank you so much for rescuing and loving him!
My number one recommendation is to talk to your vet or a veterinary behaviorist. Since he has underlying medical issues, it is hard to say if a change in his routine would help or not. That being said, dogs do thrive on routine. So I would still ensure he has some sort of regular routine. That can include making sure he eats at the same time each day, goes to potty after each meal, and goes on walks at the same time every day. Those things can help calm him down and make him naturally feel more tired at bedtime.
A Veterinary Behaviorist is trained in pet behavior and they often are not more expensive than seeing your regular vet. They can help you determine why he has his hyperactivity. You can find one near you here: https://www.dacvb.org/search/custom.asp?id=4709
I hope this helps!
Kristen
I recently started fostering a senior Shepard mix (around 12 years old). He does not like his dog bed and prefers to nap on the couch or the floor. At night, all he does is pace, cry, and whine unless I am actively petting him. I understand how hard his life has been but any thoughts so I can get some sleep and be a good dog mom??
Hi Samantha,
Thank you for fostering! How long has it been since you first fostered him? It could be some anxiety associated with him adjusting to a new home/normal.
I would suggest making sure he has a clear schedule each day. Make sure he eats, goes out to the potty, goes for walks, and has a set playtime every day at the same time. This will help him get used to when bedtime is.
Before you go to bed, try giving him some calming treats. I love The Anxious Pet. They make hemp and hemp-free calming treats. My dogs love them, too! You can try them here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578559&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
If you find his anxiety can’t be resolved with treats, I really like Zyklene for pet anxiety. It is a supplement made out of dehydrated milk, and you just sprinkle it on his food so it’s easy to administer. You can get that here: https://amzn.to/37Mchkv
I hope that this helps! Thanks again for fostering.
We got.a Bernedoodle in August. He is turning 6 months this week. He has major anxiety. When we first got him he woke up every few hours to go potty at night which was normal. Then he started to sleep from 10:30 pm until 5:30 ish. I would take him to go potty and put him back in until 6:30 and take him out for the day. Recently he has become very anxious and we can’t put him to sleep he barks and cries. We have tried letting him bark and he will for hours on to no end. I have tried letting him go out of the crate for a few minutes then put him back in and 5 minutes later he barks again. I have given him socks from family members with their scent on it and that didn’t help. We tried melatonin but that doesn’t seem to be helping. I’m hoping there might be a suggestion of something else to try. We did do the training with putting him in with a treat in our hand with the door opened then the door shut with longer time increments. That works during the day and at night he gets upset. Hoping you could help. Thanks
Hi Jordana,
I am so sorry to hear about your puppy’s anxiety!
Does he have a set routine during the day? Having predictable meal, potty, play, and walk times are really important for dogs as they thrive on routine. Has anything changed in his routine recently? A change could also cause anxiety.
Since he is still so young, I would definitely talk to your vet about this change in his behavior. There could be an underlying issue he is trying to communicate to you.
I would recommend trying Adaptil diffusers in the room his crate is in. These release natural, calming messages into the air that only he can smell. I have had success with them in the past. https://amzn.to/34SS3oC . CBD can also help to keep him calm at night. You can put some oil over his food at night when he eats. I love The Anxious Pet CBD oil: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578555&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=
I hope this helps! Please keep me posted.
Kristen
My puppy is 11 weeks old and I’ve had him for 2 weeks. I’ve been putting him in the crate every night and for every nap with no problem. Two nights ago he all of a sudden is anti the crate. Screaming in it, pooping in it when he’s been taken outside multiple times.
The vet seems to think it’s behavioral, that he’s boycotting the crate and recommended a baby portion of Benadryl. He fought that just as hard night 2.
He seems incredibly stressed. Gave him treats in the crate, his blanket, a kong full of peanut butter. Nothing is working. Any advice?
Hi Kelly,
Congrats on the new puppy! Puppies can be difficult to train. And, yours is still so little!
I would also assume this issue is behavioral, since he is still so young. The key to them sleeping in their crate is that they are actually tired when they go in there. So, ensure he has a set routine throughout the day – like plenty of walks, playtime, and set mealtimes. Then, when it comes time for bed, he will actually be sleepy.
Adaptil diffusers are also a great way to ease anxiety. Place his crate by an outlet and plug one in beside it. Adaptil diffusers release natural, calming messages into the air that only dogs can smell. This can help him stay calmer in the crate! You can get one here: https://amzn.to/39EUhJG
I hope this helps! Keep establishing that routine and ensure he gets enough exercise throughout the day.
Let me know how it goes!
Kristen
Tony is two. He loves to go to bed. He sleeps with me and my husband every night. This week he’s been keeping us up all night. Sitting on the edge of the bed wanting to get down. We take him out side but he just sits there. This is totally strange for Tony. He normally gets under the covers and is set for the night. He’s eating fine and still plays. Doesn’t seem to be in any pain. What could be the issue?
Hi Robin,
Have there been any recent changes to his routine? Disruptions in his routine can cause anxiety. If everything is the same for him, try ensuring he is going outside right before bed so he doesn’t have to go to the potty in the middle of the night. Also make sure that he is having enough exercise. Depending on his size, he may need to go on longer walks or have more playtime during the day to ensure he is actually tired at bedtime.
If you’re sure you are doing all of the above, you can try other calming methods, such as placing an Adaptil diffuser in your room. It releases natural, calming messages into the air for canines: https://amzn.to/3obiv3D The Anxious Pet also makes CBD and hemp products that are veterinary formulated for pets. I trust them, and my pets gobble them up! You can find those here: https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1578559&u=1749246&m=96210&urllink=&afftrack=0
Let me know how it goes!
Kristen